Friday, 20 September 2013

DESSERT TO MY SOUL

Today i share the  song that has touched me deepest this past 5months... Passengers_LET HER GO.... ENJOY!!

Songwriters: ROSENBERG, MICHAEL DAVID
Well you only need the light when it's burning low
Only miss the sun when it starts to snow
Only know you love her when you let her go
Only know you've been high when you're feeling low
Only hate the road when you're missing home
Only know you love her when you let her go
And you let her go

Staring at the bottom of your glass
Hoping one day you'll make a dream last
But dreams come slow and they go so fast
You see her when you close your eyes
Maybe one day you'll understand why
Everything you touch surely dies

But you only need the light when it's burning low
Only miss the sun when it starts to snow
Only know you love her when you let her go
Only know you've been high when you're feeling low
Only hate the road when you're missing home
Only know you love her when you let her go

Staring at the ceiling in the dark
Same old empty feeling in your heart
'Cause love comes slow and it goes so fast
Well you see her when you fall asleep
But never to touch and never to keep
'Cause you loved her too much and you dive too deep

Well you only need the light when it's burning low
Only miss the sun when it starts to snow
Only know you love her when you let her go
Only know you've been high when you're feeling low
Only hate the road when you're missing home
Only know you love her when you let her go
And you let her go
Oh oh oh no
And you let her go
Oh oh oh no
Well you let her go

'Cause you only need the light when it's burning low
Only miss the sun when it starts to snow
Only know you love her when you let her go
Only know you've been high when you're feeling low
Only hate the road when you're missing home
Only know you love her when you let her go

'Cause you only need the light when it's burning low
Only miss the sun when it starts to snow
Only know you love her when you let her go
Only know you've been high when you're feeling low
Only hate the road when you're missing home
Only know you love her when you let her go
And you let her go

Thursday, 19 September 2013

Can i relax?

I consider myself a first learner and even better in artistic and more workable kind of classes than the class work kind of studies. i would confidently go on a competition with professional hair stylists after a day of few tips and all but would be very nervous in a business test paper with a first year student even though i have been in business classes for three years. That is just me and the fact that i know it, i can deal with it... very well.
Am Home watching TV after a day full of planning and working, so first of all i am a really good planning partner because i am an idea bag that's not only overflowing but unique and more than you need... BUT!! i rarely keep to the plans, i am spontaneous, very spontaneous, one minute i plan to hit the saloon for a weave and before i even get the chums for the hair, i am in my room down on the floor and pop!!its a hair chop!! that's how it works in my world...people ask me how did i think of shaving off, hey everyone, i didn't think of it people, it crossed my mind before bed time and when i woke up,  remembered my thought and went digging for scissors, which i own like Five!! So yes, here is hoe the big chop happened.... i divert a lot i know!!
Back to what i was saying... OK obviously i will divert again. the reason why i said i learn fast, is because i have realized i have also learned who i am... the moment i start, if i pause, i end up stopping, i don't want to stop at what i just started and any pause i make should have so much purpose that at the end of it am being pulled back for running too fast way fast actually that am almost overboard. that's why i have found myself blogging instead of concentrating on my relaxing time on my favorite Television shows...
This is also the first time am blogging via my phone and i know you will find lots of grammar error, please forgive me loves...!!!
LOVE MS.SHEE

Thursday, 12 September 2013

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EXPECTATIONS ARE UNFAIR
Sometimes, there is just nothing you can do about it, sometimes there is something you can do about it but you know with all your guts, it’s the wrong thing to do. Those are the times the world feels like Bill Gate’s speech “…the world is always going to be unfair…” But when are we going to finish his sentence “…get used to it.” I think never, maybe one time, one time or a couple, but we are never going to take those words to hear for the rest of our lives. It is emotions like this, perspectives’, that make you remember you are human. Human to error, and like I learned, this life didn’t come with a manual and for every step we take in this journey, it’s a new baby step.  We humans will make baby steps every single day of our lives, sometimes we may feel like we in a second step but it’s just the beginning of a new journey. Yes there are second steps but doubtfully.

Take for example you’re your partner, don’t you just feel like you still get to know him every other day of the time you spend together. I went to school with my boyfriend and we spent time together for two-three years and later had a separation of about four years and then we hooked up again for a serious relationship. I got to see him at least twice a week and every single day we share something new about ourselves. It was funny how when I thought I knew him already, like he was on my fingertips, I learned that I was underestimating him or Vs V, but that didn’t mean I was wrong about him or I didn’t take him to heart and serious and all, I was being human just like he was. I like to call it expectation and I know I don’t believe in it but it’s there. Expectation is what makes us believe in someone. The thing about it is that its selfish, when you holding on to your expectation on someone, you forgetting they also have a space for expectations on you, that’s where we make the mistake, your expectations are not met and you make an error-conclusion on someone, selfishly. What am I trying to say, the people we are in a relationship with are the ones we put so much into, so much expectations such that we want to forget they are human enough to make errors that will yes hurt us, but that’s not what they intended, it was just a baby step…. Well, not ready for a walk.

The world is unfair, maybe aliens would have helped in it, if they really exist because after watching a couple of movies, I have learned their ability to predict the future as well as fore tell a thought and are pretty good at predictions and high technology. But then, it brings me back to a baby, to my relationship and generally my life. I can’t stand a movie I keep fore telling what the actor-actress will say next or even do next, continuously. Those are the movies i don’t finish or start cleaning the house as they continue, they are the series you finish the season you are on and never bother to even follow up on. That’s how life would be if it was fair, generally the ability to know when you can take your second step, knowing rather than expecting what your boyfriend will tell you next in your pillow talk time and worst of all knowing what tomorrow holds for you. Who wants to be in such a predictable movie?
Love
Ms. Shee

Thursday, 6 September 2012

COPY CAT

COPY CAT

Stupid men will not make headlines, successful and intelligent ones will make them and the whole community will want to be them. Stupid women will make headlines as the intelligent and successful women lay low and not make any headlines, they say its not modest. I heard this in today's Big breakfast show by Caroline Mutuko-Kiss 100. I couldn't remember her guest exact words but was something like that and it is one statement am not going to forget for the rest of my life. I definitely don't want  to be any of those two women because i want to make headline, as a successful and intelligent lady, yes the smart way not Kardashy's way, sorry to say.


My little brother and i were watching t.v as our house manager was washing outside, am not a big fun of t.v so i grabbed a magazine and was going through it thinking am the only one checking it out but to my surprise, ''baaba,'' he was calling out to my dad as if he had seen him and if he hadn't mentioned another word i would definitely have thought that he was just him being, well, him, a two year old missing daddy or mummy. He went on to tell me in a language that only us, family, can understand, that he was going to drive that car with dad. actually the first thing he said was that, that car was dad's and i thought to myself, if dad has a car and he is the man in the house and  monkey see, monkey do, as my dad repeats occasionally, then this monkey will definitely ensure that when he is daddy, he will have wot every dad, as he knows should have, right? And the cycle will keep repeating itself, his sons and the sons of his sons.

If monkey sees monkey does, don't you think its your responsibility as a successful woman to nature the young girls in your community and beyond if you can. lets work hard to be successful ladies and make sure the headlines are talking about us, not just for our benefits but for the little monkeys watching us. Let you our young men be with women that will raise girls proud to have a figure to look up to, themselves. Michelle Obama once said ''when you have worked hard, and done well, and walked through that door of opportunity you do not slum it shut behind you. you reach back, and you give other folks the same chances that helped you succeed.''

Friday, 31 August 2012

POEM OF LOVE

POEM OF LOVE
It hurts to love someone and not to be loved in return,
but what is more painful is to love someone and never find the courage to let that person know how  you feel.
Maybe God wants us to  meet a few wrong people before meeting the right ones,
so that, when we finally meet  the right person, we will know how to be great full for that gift.
Love is when you take away the feeling, the passion and the romance in a relationship and find out you still care for that person.
A sad thing in life is when you meet someone who means a lot to you only to find out in the end that it was never meant to be and you just have to let go.
When the door of happiness closes another opens but often times it looks so long at the closed door that we don't see the one which has been opened for us.
The best kind of friend is the kind you can just be with, never say a word and then walk away feeling, like it was the best conversation you've ever had.
It is true that we don't know  what we've got until we lose it, but it is also true that we don't know what we've been missing until it arrives.
Giving someone all your  love is never an assurance that they will love you back,
don't expect love in return, just wait for it to grow in their heart, but if doesn't, be content it grew in yours.
There are things you would love to hear that you would never hear from the person whom you would like to hear them from,
but don't  be so deaf as not to hear it  from the one who says it from their heart,.
Never say goodbye if you still want to try, never give up if you still feel you can go on,
never say you don't love a person anymore if you cant let go.
Love comes to those who still hope although they have  been disappointed,
to those who still believe although they have been betrayed,
to those who still need to love although they have been hurt before,
and to those who have the courage and faith to build trust again.
It takes only a minute to get a crush on someone,
an hour to like someone,
and a day to love someone,
but it takes a life time to forget someone.
Don't go for looks, they can deceive,
don't go for wealth, even that fades away,
go for someone who makes you smile,
because it takes only a smile to make the dark day seem bright
Hope you find the someone that makes you smile.


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